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Popping The Question? – Key Terms To Understand When Buying An Engagement Ring
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Popping The Question? – Key Terms To Understand When Buying An Engagement Ring

Before the nerve-wracking moment of popping the question, you must choose an engagement ring. First, you’re looking for something that your future fiancé will love, they’re expected to wear it every day after all! You also want a piece that shows how well you know them and represents your feelings for them. Lastly, you want it to fit (although this can always be amended at a later date) and ideally fall within your budget.

It’s a good idea to make yourself familiar with any words you may come across when choosing a ring. Angelic Diamonds, retailers of engagement and wedding rings, decode some of the common terms:

Decoding the 4Cs

For many people, the main feature of the engagement ring is the diamond. There are four main aspects of the diamond that determines its appearance and cost:

  • Cut – As we looked at earlier, the cut of a diamond refers to its symmetry, proportions and polish. It shouldn’t be confused with the shape of the diamond.
  • Clarity – This refers to the diamond’s internal features, or ‘inclusions’. Generally speaking, the more inclusions that a ring has, the less appealing it is.
  • Colour – Although most diamonds look colourless to the naked eye if you look closely you might be able to see that there are subtle yellow and brown tones that separate them. Less expensive diamonds are usually the ones with most of these tones.
  • Carat weight – Carat is the unit that diamonds are weighed in. Note that this is different from a Karat which is a measurement of purity in gold.

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Understanding the styles

You’ll find that there is a range of ring styles for you to choose from. This determines the arrangement of the main diamond, how the diamonds are presented on the band, and how it looks on the finger. There are eight main styles:

  • Solitaire – The simplest style, a solitaire ring features a single stone in the centre of the band.
  • Shoulder – This style of ring features a channel of diamonds running down each side (shoulder) of the band, it usually has a larger diamond in the centre too.
  • Halo – This is a popular style; a centre diamond is framed with smaller diamonds which makes the centre stone look bigger.
  • Three-stone – Said to symbolise the couple’s past, present and future, a three-stone band is often made up of a large diamond which is framed by a smaller diamond on each side.
  • Cluster – For this style of ring, smaller diamonds are grouped together to give the appearance of one big diamond.
  • Tension – In a tension set ring, the tension of the band keeps the diamond in its place, it often creates a bold and modern look.
  • Bezel – In a bezel ring, a thin piece of metal holds the ring in place. You can choose from full bezel ring settings where the diamond is fully circled or partial bezel settings that only cover part of the diamond.
  • Vintage – Inspired by antique styles, a vintage engagement ring is designed to look like it’s from centuries ago.

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Discovering the cuts

Another decision you must make is the cut of the diamond. This determines how much sparkle and shine a diamond has.

  • Round – This is the most popular cut of diamond and considered to be the most brilliant by many. The stone is cut into a cone shape which allows light to enter the stone.
  • Princess – This cut looks as though it’s a square or rectangle but is actually a pyramid shape, this shape is again known for its brilliance.
  • Emerald – An Emerald cut diamond is rectangular with rounded corners, designed to highlight the gem’s shine.
  • Oval – Cut in a similar way to the round diamond, an Oval cut offers more of a contemporary feel.
  • Pear – Also known as the teardrop, the Pear cut diamond can be worn either pointing towards or away from the hand.
  • Marquise – Cut with an elongated shape and sharp ends, the Marquise diamond gives off a majestic appearance.
  • Cushion – Also referred to as a pillow cut diamond, the Cushion shaped diamond can be square or rectangular with larger facets and rounded corners.
  • Asscher – Cut in a similar way to an Emerald diamond, an Asscher cut diamond has an octagonal shape and more brilliance.
  • Heart – The Heart cut has similar brilliance to the Round cut diamond but is more eye-catching because of its shape, guaranteed to turn heads.
  • Radiant – This type of cut has a square shape and rounded corners, similar to the Emerald cut. However, a radiant cut diamond has more brilliance and sparkle.

More key terms

What other key terms should you understand before you begin shopping for an engagement ring?

  • Culet – This is the point at the bottom of the diamond, the size and angle of this can affect the diamond’s worth.
  • Brilliance – This refers to the appearance of white light in the stone. Light passing through the stone produces this and it’s expertly measured with a Brilliance-Scope.
  • Prong – This is a type of setting, also known as the claw. It uses less metal to hold the stone and therefore more light can pass through the diamond.
  • Channel – Another setting, a channel secures diamonds in place and sits them flush with the band of the ring.
  • Pavé – A pavé setting sets groups of small gems in place and makes the ring appear to sparkle all the way round the band.


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